8:06
I’m not feeling particularly inspired, so let’s see what I can do with the title. My paternal grandmother had a wonderful way of speaking. She’s the only person I’ve heard say the word larrapin. (It’s in wordpress autocorrect). I thought it meant excellent generally, but apparently it’s specifically used for especially good food, Southern food, or country food. Definitely a regionalism. I miss her. Illness and age reduced her years before she died, so it’s been a long time since I experienced her grace and charm and wit.
I thought of larrapin because Ls, and I wanted to use it while I could. I’m feeling oddly relaxed. My business trip was intense and disappointing. It’s hard to get people to give me money, at least the six-figure sums I need quickly. And then the weekend was abysmal (I should use that word more often, as I have often felt at the edge of an abyss). But I had a strong rebound. Milo has been sick enough to stay home, but not sick enough to worry about, so that slowed everything down. I had the luxury of catching up on most of my email and tying up a lot of vexing loose ends.
I just made myself laugh by realizing that I’m relaxed because I feel like it’s someone else’s turn to make the next move. Someone else has to reply to my emails, or advance my work goal, or make things happen for me. I’m on the sidelines today, just helping out, pitching in where I can. I have declined an active role. Tomorrow I’ll probably shift, but it’s nice to know that this is possible, and that it feels like a tremendous luxury — which it is.
At home, well, whatever. Daniel apologized last night by phone (he was away on family business) for saying “Who could ever want to be married to you.” So that was very nice. He was in circumstances yesterday that always work to my advantage. I know what I mean by that. But it’s the same weird distance now that he’s home. I’m not bothered by it. I’m tired, buzzing a little on endorphins, and just too worn out by everything that’s happened to have the energy for change. So someone else will have to do it. But I still always have to unload the dishwasher.
8:16. meh