I know, I know, I said I wouldn’t be posting so of course I’m posting. I was propelled by this post at Already Pretty. Sal writes:
But here’s where I’m coming from: In my experience, vendors like Boden, Anthropologie, and ModCloth offer a few basics and classic items, but focus mainly on darling pieces that are absolutely brimming with personality. At least in the context of my own style, I find these pieces to be delightful but less-than-versatile. Unless I’m going for a pretty over-the-top look, I don’t generally employ more than one such item at a time, and that can be limiting. I prefer to work with garments that feel more like building blocks than stand-alones. I feel more artistic and creative when I feel like I’m making outfit soup from my own, relatively plain ingredients.
That’s exactly how I’m feeling this season. Now that I’m much more aware of what I actually wear, and what I am happiest in, I realize that I like fairly plain clothes for exactly the reason Sal pinpoints. This was my big style discovery this season. I want great but resolutely basic clothes, with amazing fit but very little detailing, so that I can express myself and my style through color combinations and bold jewelry. One of my regrets about not shopping for clothes this season s that, perhaps thanks to the color-blocking trend, there are so many wonderful, plain, building-block pieces. Or maybe they are always there, I just haven’t noticed them until now because I’ve only just realized that they are exactly what I want.
I feel excited and even relieved about this discovery. I know what I want to wear! I have a delightful crazy print dress. The bodice and skirt are printed with cats (same designer, same fabric, different style — my dress is cut like this one, and the trim at the waist, wrists, and neck is printed with leaves). It made me so happy in the fitting room that I had to buy it, but I only wear it 3-4 times a year — now I know why. I know why I thought I craved a leopard print something all last season, but never actually bought anything. I know why I get frazzled and uncomfortable every time I shop with my sister-in-law. Her style is completely different, and she keeps trying, with her forceful personality that swells to 10 times its normal size when she shops, to put me in fringes, batwing sleeves, and ruffles. (She also keeps telling me I need to minimize the line of my shoulders to look more feminine. I have wonderful, lovely, strong shoulders that are exactly the right width to balance out my no-nonsense square jaw and solid, capable, athletic thighs and give my figure a gesture of waisty-ness. My shoulders will not be minimized, thank you very much. She wishes she had such grand shoulders.)
Speaking of elegant and plain garments that take accessories very well…. I saw a woman wearing this dress at a party this weekend, and she looked stunning. I don’t like it much on the website, but in person, on her, it was the picture of elegance. She wore a heavy, multi-strand bead necklace with it that somehow minimized the choking effect of that high neckline. If I hadn’t recognized it as a Talbot’s dress, I would have guessed that it was very very expensive.
Happy visible Monday.